The 365 · Verses · Day 210 · Family
Allah commanded divorcing husbands: house her where you dwell; do not harass her; maintain her if pregnant. The fiqh-rights of the divorced woman are structurally Quranic.
Qur'an 65:6
أَسْكِنُوهُنَّ مِنْ حَيْثُ سَكَنتُم مِّن وُجْدِكُمْ وَلَا تُضَآرُّوهُنَّ لِتُضَيِّقُوا۟ عَلَيْهِنَّ ۚ وَإِن كُنَّ أُو۟لَـٰتِ حَمْلٍ فَأَنفِقُوا۟ عَلَيْهِنَّ حَتَّىٰ يَضَعْنَ حَمْلَهُنَّ ۚ فَإِنْ أَرْضَعْنَ لَكُمْ فَـَٔاتُوهُنَّ أُجُورَهُنَّ ۖ وَأْتَمِرُوا۟ بَيْنَكُم بِمَعْرُوفٍ ۖ وَإِن تَعَاسَرْتُمْ فَسَتُرْضِعُ لَهُۥٓ أُخْرَىٰ
“House the wives you are divorcing according to your means, wherever you yourselves are housed, and do not harass them so as to make their lives difficult. If they are pregnant, maintain them until they are delivered of their burdens. (Abdel Haleem, partial)”
Svenska: Låt [den hustru som inväntar skilsmässa] leva under samma villkor som ni själva inom ramen för era möjligheter, och gör inte livet svårt för henne med inskränkningar [av olika slag]. (Knut Bernström, partial)
The story
Sūrah al-Ṭalăq (the divorce sūrah) was revealed to establish the structural fiqh of divorce. Verse 6 specifically addresses the woman in her ʿiddah (waiting-period after divorce): she remains in the marital home; the husband continues to provide for her housing; he must not harass her; if she is pregnant, he provides full maintenance until delivery. The structural rights protect the woman at the most vulnerable moment.
In the language
Askinūhunna (أسكنوهن) is house them, lodge them. Min wujdikum (من وجدكم) is according to your means. Tuḍărrūhunna (تضاروهن) is to harm or harass them. Anfiqū (أنفقوا) is provide financial support. The verse uses imperative verbs to make the rights legally binding, not merely advisory.
Why this verse
Allah, even in legislating divorce, protected the woman's structural rights. The Islamic divorce is not the husband's unilateral abandonment; it includes specific responsibilities during the waiting-period and after. The verse names the housing-right, the no-harassment principle, and the pregnancy-maintenance. The structural Islamic divorce-law is one of the most protective in human history; the modern erosion of these rights (where Muslim communities under-practice the Sunnah-divorce) loses the structural protections Allah established.
Bring it into today
If divorce becomes necessary, follow the Islamic structural fiqh: the woman remains in the marital home during her ʿiddah (typically three menstrual cycles); the husband maintains her housing and basic needs; he does not pressure her to leave; if she is pregnant, the maintenance continues until delivery and the nursing-period. The structural rights are her rights, not the husband's discretion. The classical fiqh provides full detail; the modern Muslim must learn it before any divorce-situation arises.
A reflection to carry
Sūrah al-Ṭalăq verse 6 is one of the structurally most-protective verses in the Qurʾan about the divorced woman. Allah commanded: 'House them where you yourselves dwell, according to your means; do not harass them to make things difficult for them; if they are pregnant, maintain them until they deliver their burdens; and if they nurse for you, give them their wages and consult together in kindness; if you face difficulties, let another woman nurse for the father' (65:6, full verse). Read the structural protections. First: housing. The divorced woman remains in the marital home during her ʿiddah (waiting-period); the husband does not expel her. Second: no harassment. The husband does not pressure her or make her life difficult to force her to leave. Third: pregnancy-maintenance. If she is pregnant at the time of divorce, the maintenance continues until delivery. Fourth: nursing-wages. If she nurses the baby afterward, the father pays her nursing-wages. Fifth: consultation. The decisions about the child are made in mutual consultation. The Islamic divorce-law is among the most protective in human history; the modern Muslim must learn and apply the structural rights. Today, even if you are not facing divorce, learn the fiqh; the believer who understands these rights is structurally prepared.
Read the longer reflection
Sūrah al-Ṭalăq (the sūrah of divorce, Sūrah 65) is the structurally foundational text of Islamic divorce-law. Allah dedicated an entire sūrah to the topic, indicating the structural importance of the legal-fiqh framework. Verse 6 contains the protective rights of the woman during her ʿiddah (waiting-period after divorce). Read the full verse: 'askinūhunna min ḥaythu sakantum min wujdikum wa-lă tuḍărrūhunna li-tuḍayyiqū ʿalayhinn; wa-in kunna ulăti ḥamlin fa-anfiqū ʿalayhinna ḥattă yaḍaʿna ḥamlahunn; fa-in arḍaʿna lakum fa-ătūhunna ujūrahunna; wa-ʾa-tamirū baynakum bi-maʿrūf; wa-in taʿăsartum fa-saturdiʿu lahu ukhră'. Read each protection. 'askinūhunna min ḥaythu sakantum'. House them where you yourselves dwell. The divorced woman remains in the marital home during her ʿiddah. The husband does not expel her; he does not move her to a lesser dwelling; he provides the same standard of housing he had been providing before the divorce-pronouncement. 'min wujdikum'. According to your means. The housing-standard is calibrated to the husband's means; the wealthy man cannot move his divorced wife to a poor dwelling. 'wa-lă tuḍărrūhunna li-tuḍayyiqū ʿalayhinn'. And do not harass them to make things difficult for them. The Arabic muḍărrah is harming, harassing; the verse forbids the husband from psychological, emotional, or material pressure that would force the wife to leave or to forfeit her rights. The structural protection is direct. 'wa-in kunna ulăti ḥamlin fa-anfiqū ʿalayhinna ḥattă yaḍaʿna ḥamlahunn'. If they are pregnant, maintain them until they deliver. The pregnancy-maintenance extends beyond the typical three-menstrual-cycle ʿiddah; the man continues to provide full nafaqah (maintenance) until the woman delivers. The structural protection of the unborn child and the carrying mother is named. 'fa-in arḍaʿna lakum fa-ătūhunna ujūrahunna'. If they nurse for you, give them their wages. The breastfeeding period (up to two years per the Qurʾanic baseline) is structurally compensated by the father; the divorced mother is paid for nursing the father's child. 'wa-ʾa-tamirū baynakum bi-maʿrūf'. And consult together in kindness. The decisions about the child are made through mutual consultation, not unilaterally. 'wa-in taʿăsartum fa-saturdiʿu lahu ukhră'. If you face difficulties (in the breastfeeding arrangement), let another woman nurse for the father. The structural alternative is named. The Islamic divorce-law, when faithfully practiced, is among the most protective in human history. Compare with non-Islamic divorce-frameworks (medieval European 'divorce' had almost no woman-protection; many modern systems put the burden of protective-enforcement on courts that often fail to protect). The Islamic structure builds the protection into the religious-legal-fiqh framework itself; the believer who divorces is structurally bound to provide. Now consider the modern context. Many Muslim communities have eroded the structural fiqh of divorce. The wife is often expelled from the home immediately after the divorce-pronouncement; the maintenance is delayed or refused; the pregnancy and nursing-period maintenance is contested; the mutual consultation about children breaks down into court-battles. The cure is to restore the Islamic fiqh-structure. The cure has three motions. First, learn the fiqh. Every Muslim should know the structural rights of the divorced woman (and the man's reciprocal rights and the children's rights). The classical texts (Mukhtaṣar al-Quduri for Hanafi; Risalah of Ibn Abi Zayd for Maliki; Umm of al-Shăfiʿī; ʿUmdat al-Fiqh for Hanbali) and modern guides are available. Second, if facing divorce-considerations, prioritize the structural fiqh-process. The Sunnah-divorce is gentle, time-spaced, with reconciliation-windows; not the modern impulsive pronouncement. Third, if you are not facing divorce, work to maintain the marriage; the verse 30:21 (Day 208) named the structural sakīnah-mawaddah-raḥmah design; the marriage that is structurally maintained does not enter the divorce-territory. Pray today: Allāhumma 'aḥ-faẓ zawăjī min al-ṭalăq; wa-in qaddarta al-ṭalăqa fa-ajʿalhu ʿală sunnati nabiyyik. O Allah, preserve my marriage from divorce; and if You decree divorce, make it according to the Sunnah of Your Prophet ﷺ. The structural rights are Allah's design; the protection is His mercy.
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