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The 365 · Sunnah · Day 165 · Family

The Three Structural Community-Rights (Sick-Visit, Funeral, Sneeze-Response)


The hadith

حَقُّ المُسْلِمِ عَلَى المُسْلِمِ خَمْسٌ

The Prophet ﷺ said: 'The rights of the Muslim over the Muslim are five: returning the salăm, visiting the sick, attending funerals, accepting invitations, and responding to the one who sneezes [if he has said al-ḥamdu lillăh]' (Bukhārī 1240, Muslim 2162). The five-fold structural rights bind every Muslim to every other Muslim.

Svenska: Profeten ﷺ sade: 'Muslimens rättigheter över muslimen är fem: att besvara salam, besöka den sjuke, delta i begravningar, acceptera inbjudningar, och svara den som nyser' (Bukhari 1240, Muslim 2162).

Sahih al-Bukhari 1240, Sahih Muslim 2162 (Abu Hurayrah)

The story

The Prophet ﷺ enumerated these five rights as comprehensive. The Companions adopted them structurally. The Madinan community-life was characterized by the five-fold pattern: salăm exchanged at every encounter; sick-visits as structural pattern; funerals attended widely; invitations honored; sneeze-responses given. The umma's social fabric was the five rights lived in continuous practice.

Why it's here

The Prophet ﷺ established five structural rights that every Muslim owes every other Muslim. The five are: returning salăm (Day 116 cluster); visiting the sick (Day 163); attending funerals (Day 164); accepting invitations; responding to the sneeze (Day 116). The five together define the structural community-bond. Today closes the Family-Sunnah sub-cluster by naming these structural rights as the integrated map; the believer who fulfills the five maintains the umma's structural cohesion.

Try it today

1. Return every salăm promptly and at least at the same level (the Prophet ﷺ: return with same or better). 2. Visit the sick in your community within days of hearing of their illness. 3. Attend funerals when possible (two qīrăṭayn reward). 4. Accept invitations from fellow Muslims (unless there is structural reason not to). 5. When a Muslim sneezes and says al-ḥamdu lillăh, respond with yarḥamuk-Allăh. 6. Teach these five to children as foundational community-ethics.

In your day

Audit your own practice of the five. Are you returning salăm promptly when greeted? Visiting the sick in your community? Attending funerals when possible? Accepting invitations from fellow Muslims (within fiqh-limits)? Responding to sneezes with yarḥamuk-Allăh? Each is a structural duty; the five together maintain the umma's cohesion.

A reflection to carry

The Prophet ﷺ established five structural rights every Muslim owes every other Muslim. He said: 'The rights of the Muslim over the Muslim are five: returning the salăm, visiting the sick, attending funerals, accepting invitations, and responding to the sneeze' (Bukhārī 1240, Muslim 2162). The five together define the structural community-bond. Salăm exchanged at every encounter (Day 116 cluster); sick-visits when illness arises (Day 163); funeral-attendance when death occurs (Day 164); acceptance of invitations (the Sunnah of community-participation); sneeze-response with yarḥamuk-Allăh (Day 116). The believer who fulfills the five maintains the umma's structural cohesion; the believer who lets them slip contributes to community-fragmentation. Today, audit your practice. Are you fulfilling the five? Each is a structural duty; each is a Sunnah-act; each carries reward; the five together form the structural community-fabric the Prophet ﷺ designed.

Read the longer reflection

The Prophet ﷺ, in one of the most structurally comprehensive hadiths about Muslim community-life, enumerated five rights that every Muslim owes every other Muslim. He said: 'ḥaqqu al-muslimi ʿală al-muslimi khamsun: raddu al-salămi, wa-ʿiyădatu al-marīḍi, wa-ittibăʿu al-janăʾizi, wa-ijăbatu al-daʿwati, wa-tashmītu al-ʿăṭis' (Bukhārī 1240, Muslim 2162). The rights of the Muslim over the Muslim are five: returning the salăm, visiting the sick, attending funerals, accepting invitations, and responding to the sneeze [of a Muslim who has said al-ḥamdu lillăh]. The hadith establishes structural community-rights. Each Muslim has these five rights over each other Muslim, by virtue of the shared faith. Read each. First: raddu al-salăm. Returning the salăm. When a Muslim greets you with 'as-salămu ʿalaykum', the response is owed; the Sunnah is to return at the same or higher level ('wa ʿalaykum al-salăm wa-raḥmatu Allăh' or 'wa ʿalaykum al-salăm wa-raḥmatu Allăhi wa-barakătuh'). The right is fiqh-binding; the refusal to return salăm is structurally a sin. Second: ʿiyădatu al-marīḍ. Visiting the sick. The structural Sunnah of Day 163; the believer owes the community-presence to the sick. Third: ittibăʿu al-janăʾiz. Attending funerals. The structural Sunnah of Day 164; the two qīrăṭayn reward. Fourth: ijăbatu al-daʿwah. Accepting invitations. When a Muslim invites you to his home, his walīmah (wedding-feast), his ʿaqīqah (newborn-celebration), his Eid-gathering, the structural Sunnah is to accept (unless there is fiqh-based reason not to: haram-elements present, structural hostility, scheduling-conflict that cannot be resolved). The Prophet ﷺ: 'If you are invited, respond' (Bukhārī 5179). And specifically on walīmah: 'The worst food is the food of the walīmah to which the rich are invited and from which the poor are excluded; whoever does not respond to the invitation has disobeyed Allah and His Messenger' (Bukhārī 5177, Muslim 1432). The structural emphasis on walīmah-attendance is direct. Fifth: tashmītu al-ʿăṭis. Responding to the sneeze. When a Muslim sneezes and says 'al-ḥamdu lillăh', the structural response is 'yarḥamuk-Allăh'; the sneezer then closes with 'yahdīkum-Allăhu wa-yuṣliḥu bălakum'. The three-way exchange is structural; Days 116-117 examined the full protocol. The five rights together define the structural community-bond. The believer who fulfills the five maintains the umma's social-fabric integrity; the believer who lets them slip contributes to community-fragmentation. Now consider the modern application. The five are each structurally Sunnah but variably practiced in modern Muslim communities. Salăm-returning is often robust (most Muslims return salăm when greeted, even briefly). Sick-visiting has eroded (many Muslims no longer routinely visit fellow Muslims when ill, even within their own community). Funeral-attendance has eroded (the Companions' pattern of attending every Muslim funeral they could has been replaced by selective attendance). Invitation-acceptance has eroded (the modern excuse 'I am busy' often replaces the structural acceptance). Sneeze-response has eroded (many Muslims have forgotten the three-way exchange entirely). The cluster of erosions weakens the structural community-bond. The cure is to audit the five and restore each. The cure has five structural motions, one per right. First, install the prompt salăm-return. When greeted, return immediately and at the higher level when possible. Second, install the sick-visit response-reflex (Day 163). Third, install the funeral-attendance default (Day 164). Fourth, install the invitation-acceptance discipline. When invited, accept unless there is structural reason not to. The invitation is the right; the acceptance is the duty. Fifth, install the sneeze-response Sunnah. When you hear a Muslim sneeze and say al-ḥamdu lillăh, respond with yarḥamuk-Allăh immediately. The five together form the comprehensive community-Sunnah. Today closes the Family-Sunnah sub-cluster (Days 154-165): the parents (154-155); the in-laws (156); the siblings (157); the aunts and uncles (158); the orphans (159); the family-map (160); the husband (161); the wife (162); the sick (163); the funeral (164); the five rights (165). Together, twelve days of structural family-and-community Sunnah. Pray today: Allāhumma 'ajʿalnī mim man yu-wă-fee bi-ḥuqūqi al-muʾminīna ʿalayhi, muḥ-aafii-ẓan ʿală al-jamăʿah. O Allah, make me of those who fulfill the rights of the believers upon them, preserving the community. The five are the structural community-bond; the practice is daily; the umma's cohesion is in our hands.

Sources: Sahih Bukhari, Sahih Muslim, Tirmidhi. The Qur'an and its translation are verified; the scholarship is retold faithfully in our own words and credited to its sources, never reproduced verbatim.

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