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The Seerah · Day 61 · The Trench and Hudaybiyyah

Banu Qurayzah

Judged by the law they chose for themselves

5 AH, the morning the siege lifted Madinah
Retold from Dr. Yasir Qadhi's Seerah seriesWatch the original

This is one of the hardest days in the whole seerah, and one of the most lied about. So begin where the Sheikh begins, with the truth that the critics always cut away: the context. The siege of Madinah, al-Ahzab, has just ended. For nearly a month the city had been ringed by the largest army Arabia could assemble, and in the middle of that terror one tribe inside the walls, bound to the Prophet ﷺ by treaty, had broken its word and turned to negotiate with the enemy at the gates. The danger had not been the army alone. It had been the knife at the back.

Allah lifted the siege without a battle. The Prophet ﷺ came home exhausted, and had not even set down his weapon when the next command arrived. Walk this day slowly, the way Dr. Yasir Qadhi walks it, and you will see something the headlines never show you: a justice so careful that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ gave away his own right to pronounce it.

The war was not over

وَرَدَّ اللَّهُ الَّذِينَ كَفَرُوا بِغَيْظِهِمْ لَمْ يَنَالُوا خَيْرًا ۚ وَكَفَى اللَّهُ الْمُؤْمِنِينَ الْقِتَالَ ۚ وَكَانَ اللَّهُ قَوِيًّا عَزِيزًا

“And Allah repelled those who disbelieved, in their rage, not having obtained any good. And sufficient was Allah for the believers in battle, and ever is Allah Powerful and Exalted in Might.”

Surah al-Ahzab 33:25 Read 33:25 with tafsir

The morning after the great sandstorm, the believers woke to an empty horizon. The tents were overturned, the enemy gone, the confederates scattered without a sword being drawn. Allah had sufficed the believers in the fighting. The Prophet ﷺ returned to his home around midday, in the hour the whole region keeps for rest, and began to unbuckle his armor.

He had barely set down his weapon when Jibril came to him, dressed for war, riding with a saddle of brocade. Have you put down your sword? The Prophet ﷺ said yes. And Jibril said: the angels have not put theirs down. Allah commands you to go to Banu Qurayzah, and I am going ahead to shake the earth beneath them.

There would not be a single day of rest. The Prophet ﷺ sent a crier through Madinah with an order so urgent it became one of the most famous commands of his life: no one is to pray Asr except at Banu Qurayzah. Hurry. The Companions set out at once, the wounds of a month-long siege still on them, marching toward the fortress of the tribe that had betrayed the city.

Two readings of one command

On the road, that single order opened one of the most instructive moments in Islamic law. The Companions left in batches, and some were still walking when the sun began to set. Asr was slipping away. Now what? Some said the Prophet ﷺ had meant hurry, not literally delay the prayer past its time, so they prayed Asr where they stood. Others said he had said Asr at Banu Qurayzah and Asr at Banu Qurayzah is what he meant, even if it came late. They prayed only after they arrived.

Two camps of qualified, sincere people read the same words two honest ways. And when they told the Prophet ﷺ what had happened, he criticized neither side. He simply let it be. Dr. Yasir Qadhi pauses here on what that silence teaches: when those truly qualified to weigh the texts arrive at different rulings, neither is forced to follow the other, and neither should look down on the other. The literalist and the one who reads for the reason behind the words are both walking a road the Companions walked first. His one caution is firm: this is a conversation for those trained to have it, not for everyone with an opinion.

The repentance tied to a pillar

يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا لَا تَخُونُوا اللَّهَ وَالرَّسُولَ وَتَخُونُوا أَمَانَاتِكُمْ وَأَنتُمْ تَعْلَمُونَ

“O you who have believed, do not betray Allah and the Messenger or betray your trusts while you know [the consequence].”

Surah al-Anfal 8:27 Read 8:27 with tafsir

وَآخَرُونَ اعْتَرَفُوا بِذُنُوبِهِمْ خَلَطُوا عَمَلًا صَالِحًا وَآخَرَ سَيِّئًا عَسَى اللَّهُ أَن يَتُوبَ عَلَيْهِمْ ۚ إِنَّ اللَّهَ غَفُورٌ رَّحِيمٌ

“And [there are] others who have acknowledged their sins. They had mixed a righteous deed with another that was bad. Perhaps Allah will turn to them in forgiveness. Indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.”

Surah at-Tawbah 9:102 Read 9:102 with tafsir

The fortress was strong, and the Muslims laid siege. As the days dragged toward weeks, the tribe asked for one of the Companions by name, Abu Lubabah, an old friend from before Islam who used to visit them and was trusted among them. The Prophet ﷺ let him go in. Inside, the women and children crowded around him weeping, and they asked: should we surrender? Abu Lubabah said yes. But as he said it, he drew his hand across his throat, signaling what surrender would mean.

He had not yet moved his feet, he later said, before he knew he had betrayed Allah and His Messenger. He had let his old affection pull his loyalty out of place in the one moment it mattered most. He walked straight past the army, past the Prophet ﷺ, all the way to the mosque in Madinah, and tied himself to a pillar, swearing he would not move until Allah accepted his repentance. That pillar is still called the pillar of repentance to this day.

When the Prophet ﷺ heard, he said: had he come to me, I would have asked Allah to forgive him, but he has bound himself, and now it is between him and his Lord. Days later, at dawn, the Prophet ﷺ came out smiling. Allah had accepted Abu Lubabah's repentance. The Companions rushed to untie him, but he refused to be freed by anyone except the Prophet ﷺ himself, and so the Prophet ﷺ loosed the ropes with his own hands before leading the prayer. Al-Hasan al-Basri called the verse that came down for men like him the most hopeful verse in the entire Qur'an: people who mix good deeds and bad, who own their sins, and of whom Allah says, perhaps Allah will turn to them in forgiveness.

The man who kept his word

يُوفُونَ بِالنَّذْرِ وَيَخَافُونَ يَوْمًا كَانَ شَرُّهُ مُسْتَطِيرًا

“They [are those who] fulfill [their] vows and fear a Day whose evil will be widespread.”

Surah al-Insan 76:7 Read 76:7 with tafsir

Inside the fortress, their chief Ka'b ibn Asad laid three choices before his people. Accept this man's religion, he told them, for by Allah we all know he is the prophet foretold in our own books, and then we are all safe, for Islam forgives everything. They refused. Note what he confessed, the Sheikh says: at the very end, the open secret comes out. They knew, and they would not follow. That is the worst arrogance imaginable, to see the truth clearly and still turn away from it. His other two options, a desperate last charge or a surprise attack on their own Sabbath, they refused as well, and he despaired of ever getting a decision out of them.

Then they sent for unconditional terms to be softened, and the Prophet ﷺ refused: nothing less than unconditional surrender. He could have lured them out with a false promise and done as he wished. He would not. Treachery is forbidden, the Sheikh stresses, even against an enemy you already know is doomed; the Messenger of Allah ﷺ was a man of his word to the end.

And then a small thing that the Sheikh says holds the whole key. On the last night, one man of the tribe, Amr ibn Sa'da, slipped out past the guards. He was the one Qurazi who had stood up and refused to break the covenant with the Prophet ﷺ in the first place. The Companion on watch let him go, and he vanished, and was never harmed. When the Prophet ﷺ heard, he said: that was a man whom Allah saved because of his faithfulness. He died upon his own religion, yet Allah spared him. Hold onto that. These people were punished for what they did, not for who they were.

Judged by their own

When the tribe finally surrendered, the Aws gathered around the Prophet ﷺ and began to plead. Banu Qurayzah had been their allies in the days before Islam, and they begged for the same mercy the Khazraj had won earlier for the Banu Nadir, who had been allowed to leave with what their camels could carry. But there was a world of difference between leaving and what this tribe had done in the hour of the siege, and the Prophet ﷺ had not yet said a word about their fate.

So he gave the Aws something extraordinary. Will you be satisfied, he asked, if one of your own decides their case? They said yes. And he named Sa'd ibn Mu'adh, the leader of the Aws, the tribe's own ally and chief. Dr. Yasir Qadhi stops you here, because this is the part the world never tells. The Messenger of Allah ﷺ stepped down from his own right to pass the judgment, and handed it to a man the tribe itself would have to accept as fair. He knew that if he had ruled, it would have been obeyed. But a true leader does not impose himself; he carries his people with him. So the verdict would not be the Prophet's ﷺ. It would be theirs.

Sa'd was dying. A wound from the Trench had cut deep and would not stop bleeding; he had spent the siege in the tent of Rufaydah, the Companion who nursed the wounded, the first field hospital of Islam. They brought him on a mule, and as he came the Aws pressed him to be merciful, reminding him of the old days, until he said: now is the time for Sa'd to fear no one's blame when it comes to Allah. The Prophet ﷺ told the Companions, stand for your leader, the only time in the entire seerah he ever commanded such a thing. Sa'd made them promise, and then lowered his face before the Prophet ﷺ and made him promise too, that the verdict would stand. It would, the Prophet ﷺ said.

The verdict, and what it was not

Sa'd did not hesitate. He had been carrying the judgment for thirty days. His ruling: the fighting men would be executed, their property divided, and the women and children taken as captives. And the Prophet ﷺ said: you have judged by the judgment of Allah from above the seven heavens. The men were taken in batches to a place outside the city, and there they were executed; the books of seerah differ on the number, Ibn Ishaq giving six to seven hundred and noting that some exaggerate higher, a hadith mentioning around four hundred. It was, the Sheikh says plainly, not a small number. There is no softening that.

But hold the picture whole, because this is exactly where the lie lives. No children were killed. Only one woman was executed, and only because she had killed a Companion during the siege by dropping a millstone on him from the wall. Anyone of the tribe who had accepted Islam was spared. So were those a Muslim asked clemency for, like the old man Zubayr ibn Batta, whose life a Companion repaid for an old debt of mercy, though Zubayr, seeing his people gone, chose in the end to follow them. Even one of the captives, Rayhana, the Prophet ﷺ would later free; she saw how she was treated and chose Islam, and chose to remain with him.

Listen to how Dr. Yasir Qadhi answers the critics, because he does not flinch. The punishment was harsh, he says, and he will not pretend otherwise; a religion that is mercy as its rule still has a place, once in a great while, for severity, and there are lines a people cannot be allowed to cross. A non-Muslim may call it harsh. We say it was the judgment of Allah. But the one charge that is a flat lie, that no scholar of Islam has ever even hinted at, is that they were killed for being who they were. They were not. They were judged for treason in a time of war, after being warned again and again. And the law Sa'd applied was, almost word for word, the law of their own scripture: in Deuteronomy, a city that refuses peace and gives battle is besieged, and when it falls its fighting men are put to the sword while the women and children are spared. They were judged, in the end, by the very book they swore they would never leave.

The throne that shook for Sa'd

Sa'd ibn Mu'adh had made one last du'a as the wound bled: O Allah, let me live to see this day. Allah granted it. And then, his work done, he died, only days after the verdict, at thirty-seven years old.

When the Companions carried his body, they said they had never carried anyone lighter. The Prophet ﷺ told them why: seventy thousand angels had come down to carry him, angels who had never before descended to the earth. At the graveside in al-Baqi, surrounded by the believers, the Prophet ﷺ said Subhan Allah, and the whole of al-Baqi said it with him, and then he said Allahu Akbar, and they followed. This, he told them, is the servant for whom the Throne of the Most Merciful shook, and for whom the gates of heaven were opened. The grave squeezes everyone, even a soul like his, and then lets go; if anyone were to be spared that pressing, it would have been Sa'd. And the Prophet ﷺ said to him in the earth: may Allah reward you, leader of your people. You fulfilled your promise to Allah, and Allah will fulfill His promise to you.

That is where the day ends, not on a battlefield but at a graveside, with a dying man who spent the last strength of his life being faithful when it cost him everything, and a Prophet ﷺ who gave away his own authority rather than let the weight of justice fall from a hand his people could not trust. Whose loyalty do you carry, the day keeps asking, and is it Allah's even when it is hard?

A dua from this day

يُوفُونَ بِالنَّذْرِ وَيَخَافُونَ يَوْمًا كَانَ شَرُّهُ مُسْتَطِيرًا

Yufuna bin-nadhri wa yakhafuna yawman kana sharruhu mustatira

They fulfill their vows and fear a Day whose evil will be widespread. O Allah, make us faithful to our word with You, and gather us with Sa'd ibn Mu'adh among the prophets, the truthful, the martyrs, and the righteous.

What this day teaches

Banu Qurayzah is heavy, and the Sheikh refuses to make it light. But he draws clear threads from it, and they are about you more than about them.

  • Context is not an excuse, it is the truth.

    The critics cut away the siege, the broken treaty, the knife in the city's back, and judge what is left. Dr. Yasir Qadhi puts it back. You owe every hard story the same honesty: the whole picture, before the verdict.

  • Guard your loyalty in the moment it is tested.

    Abu Lubabah's heart was good; one gesture of misplaced affection undid him. He repented at a pillar until Allah forgave him. Where your loyalty lands when it is hardest is where it truly is.

  • Faithfulness can save you.

    Amr ibn Sa'da kept his covenant and Allah made a way out for him; the one woman executed had killed a man. People were answered for what they did. Your word, kept, is never wasted with Allah.

  • Real leadership gives power away.

    The Prophet ﷺ could have ruled and been obeyed. Instead he handed the judgment to the tribe's own chief, so no one could call it unfair. Strength that serves its people lets go of its own prerogative.

  • Mercy is the rule; justice still has a line.

    Islam leads with gentleness, and once in a great while it must be firm. Knowing the difference, and never confusing softness with truth, is part of carrying the deen honestly.

Why this day stays with you

You will hear Banu Qurayzah thrown at you one day, stripped of its context, the number shouted and everything around it erased. Now you have what the shouting leaves out: a tribe that broke its word with the city under siege, three warnings ignored, a confessed knowledge of the truth and a refusal to follow it, and a justice so scrupulous that the Messenger of Allah ﷺ gave his own authority away rather than wield it over a people who could not trust him. The punishment was real and it was heavy. The Sheikh does not hide that. But it was justice in a time of war, and it was passed by the tribe's own chosen judge, by the very law their own scripture taught.

And around that hard center stand the gentler figures the day will not let you forget: Abu Lubabah weeping at his pillar until forgiveness came, Amr ibn Sa'da saved by a covenant he kept, Sa'd ibn Mu'adh spending the last blood in his body on faithfulness, and a Prophet ﷺ who loosed his friend's ropes with his own hands. O Allah, keep us true to our word with You, make our loyalty Yours in the moment it costs us most, forgive us as You forgave Abu Lubabah, and gather us with Sa'd ibn Mu'adh among the prophets, the truthful, the martyrs, and the righteous, and how excellent are those as companions. Ameen.

Questions

Why were the men of Banu Qurayzah executed?
For treachery during the siege of Madinah (al-Ahzab). The tribe was bound to the Prophet ﷺ by treaty, and in the most dangerous hour, with the city ringed by the confederate armies, they broke that covenant and negotiated with the enemy at the gates. Dr. Yasir Qadhi stresses that they were judged for what they did, an act of treason in a time of war, after repeated warnings, and not for who they were. No scholar of the seerah has ever claimed otherwise.
Why did the Prophet ﷺ let Sa'd ibn Mu'adh decide instead of ruling himself?
When the surrender came, the Aws pleaded for their old allies, so the Prophet ﷺ offered to let one of the Aws' own leaders pass the verdict, and they agreed. He named Sa'd ibn Mu'adh, their chief. He stepped down from his own right to judge so that no one could call the outcome unjust; a true leader carries his people rather than imposing on them. Sa'd then ruled that the fighting men be executed and the women and children spared, and the Prophet ﷺ said he had judged by the judgment of Allah from above the seven heavens.
Were women and children killed?
No children were killed. Of the women, only one was executed, and only because she had killed a Companion during the siege by dropping a millstone on him from the fortress wall. The women and children were taken as captives. Those of the tribe who accepted Islam were spared, as were several individuals for whom Muslims asked clemency.
How does the Sheikh answer those who call this anti-Semitic or excessive?
He does not flinch. He acknowledges the punishment was harsh and refuses to pretend otherwise, noting that a religion whose rule is mercy still has a place for severity when a line is crossed. A non-Muslim may call it harsh; Muslims hold it was the judgment of Allah. But the charge that they were killed for their identity he calls a flat lie that no scholar has ever supported. He also points out that the verdict mirrors, almost word for word, the law of war in their own scripture, Deuteronomy 20:10-14.
What happened to Sa'd ibn Mu'adh?
He had been mortally wounded at the Battle of the Trench and prayed that Allah let him live to settle the affair of Banu Qurayzah. Allah granted it, and he died only days after the verdict, at the age of thirty-seven. The Prophet ﷺ said the Throne of the Most Merciful shook for him and that seventy thousand angels descended to carry him, angels who had never before come down to the earth.

Retold faithfully from Dr. Yasir Qadhi's Seerah of Prophet Muhammad ﷺ, episode 61: Banu Qurayzah (Memphis Islamic Center, 2013). Qur'an: Sahih International, verified via quran.ai. The narration is the Sheikh's, the phrasing is Buruja's.

Carry it today

Context is not an excuse, it is the truth.

The critics cut away the siege, the broken treaty, the knife in the city's back, and judge what is left. Dr. Yasir Qadhi puts it back. You owe every hard story the same honesty: the whole picture, before the verdict.

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