The 365 · Tazkiyah · Day 73 · Money
Bukhl · Miserliness
The disease
الْبُخْل
Al-Bukhl
The story
The Prophet ﷺ said: 'Two qualities are not combined in a believer: bukhl and bad character.' (Tirmidhī 1962.) Imam al-Ghazālī wrote: 'The miser sees his wealth as his own. The believer sees it as Allah's deposit, given for distribution. The miser fears the wealth's departure; the believer fears the failure to distribute it.' The classical aphorism: the miser is poor in two states: poor in this world from his withholding, poor in the next from his accumulation that he could not bring with him.
Why it's named first
Bukhl is miserliness: the heart's structural refusal to part with wealth. It is the inverse of generosity (sakhāʾ). The Prophet ﷺ named bukhl as one of the destroyers of the nations who came before. The diseased soul that withholds what was named upon it (zakāh, kin's right, neighbors' need, family's care) operates against the structural economy Allah established.
In the Qur'an
Q 47:38: وَمَن يَبْخَلْ فَإِنَّمَا يَبْخَلُ عَن نَّفْسِهِ ۚ وَاللَّهُ الْغَنِيُّ وَأَنتُمُ الْفُقَرَاءُ. Abdel Haleem: '...whoever is miserly, is being so to himself. Allah is the Self-Sufficient; you are the needy.' The verse is structurally severe: the miser's miserliness damages himself, not Allah.
In the Sunnah
The Prophet ﷺ said: 'Beware of stinginess, for it destroyed the people who came before you. It commanded them to be miserly, so they were miserly; and it commanded them to cut the ties of kinship, so they cut them; and it commanded them to commit immoral actions, so they did so.' (Sunan Abū Dāwūd 1698, Aḥmad 6792, classed ḥasan.) The hadith names the structural cascade: bukhl produces severance of kinship and immoral conduct as downstream effects.
The cure
1. Pay zakāh precisely each year. The structural floor. 2. Add voluntary sadaqah weekly. 3. Spend on family, kin, neighbors before strangers. 4. Practice the giving-without-attachment exercise: identify one possession you would not part with; give it. 5. Make the duʿāʾ for refuge from bukhl.
What is at stake
Abū Dāwūd 1698: the destruction of nations. The bukhl-cascade operates at individual scale and at communal scale. Communities of misers structurally fail; individual misers structurally lose Paradise. The hadith of the iron cloaks (Bukhārī 1443) is the visual: the miser's cloak sticks; he cannot widen it.
A du'a for this day
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنَ الْبُخْلِ (O Allah, I seek refuge in You from miserliness.) (Bukhārī 6369.) The Prophet ﷺ included bukhl explicitly in his standard refuge-duʿāʾ.
The door of mercy
The cure scales: each instance of giving weakens bukhl. The Prophet ﷺ said: 'Wealth never decreases because of sadaqah; Allah never increases a servant who gives in charity except in honor.' (Muslim 2588.) The structural inversion is operational: bukhl shrinks the heart and the wealth; sadaqah expands both.
A reflection to carry
Bukhl is miserliness: the inability to part with wealth even for legitimate needs. The Prophet ﷺ: 'Beware of bukhl, for bukhl destroyed those before you: it commanded them to cut ties of kinship and they cut them, to be miserly and they were miserly, to commit immorality and they committed it.' (Abū Dāwūd 1698.)
Read the longer reflection
The diseased state has structural downstream effects: the bakhīl (miser) cannot give zakāh fully, cannot honor family obligations, cannot help the poor. Each bukhl-act is a missed accumulation of akhirah-currency. The cure: structural giving-discipline. Train yourself by deliberate giving when difficult: the gift you do not want to give is the structurally weighted one. The Companions practiced this: they gave the food they wanted to eat, the clothing they wanted to wear, the money they wanted to keep. Modern application: pair every bukhl-temptation with a charity-act.
Sources: Quran, Sahih Bukhari, Sahih Muslim, Abu Dawud, Tirmidhi, Ahmad, Ghazali. The Qur'an and its translation are verified; the scholarship is retold faithfully in our own words and credited to its sources, never reproduced verbatim.
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