The Book of Miscellany

Riyad as-Salihin · Chapter 66

Desirability of visiting the Graves for men, and that they should say

باب استحباب زيارة القبور للرجال وما يقوله الزائر

This chapter gathers the Prophet's guidance on visiting graves, a practice he once held back and then opened up once hearts were firm in faith. The reason he gives is the heart of the matter: graves remind us of the Hereafter. A graveyard is the quietest sermon there is, a place where the noise of the world falls away and the soul remembers where it is headed.

Notice that the visit is not about the dead alone but about the living who come. Across these narrations the visitor greets the believers resting there, asks Allah's forgiveness for them, and acknowledges that we are all walking the same road: you have gone ahead, and we will follow. The Arabic salam taught here turns a visit into mercy flowing both ways, a soft word of peace and a humble reminder of our own appointed return.

Hadith 580

Buraidah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:

عن بريدة رضي الله عنه قال قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏"‏كنت نهيتكم عن زيارة القبور فزوروها‏"‏ ‏(‏‏(‏رواه مسلم‏)‏‏)‏‏.‏ وفي رواية ‏"‏فمن أراد أن يزور القبور فليزر؛ فإنها تذكرنا الآخرة ‏"‏

Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "(In the past) I forbade you from visiting graves, but visit them now." In another narration Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) said, "Whoever wants to visit a graveyard, let him do so, because it reminds us of the Hereafter." [Muslim].

In plain words

The Prophet, who had once held people back from visiting graves, now allowed it, because visiting a graveyard reminds us of the Hereafter.

Reference : Riyad as-Salihin 580 In-book reference : Introduction, Hadith 580

Hadith 581

'Aishah (May Allah be pleased with her):

وعن عائشة رضي الله عنها قالت‏:‏ كان رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم كلما كان ليلتها من رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم يخرج من آخر الليل إلى البقيع، فيقول‏:‏ السلام عليكم دار قوم مؤمنين، وأتاكم ما توعدون، غداً مؤجلون وإنا إن شاء الله بكم لاحقون، اللهم اغفر لأهل بقيع الغرقد” ‏(‏‏(‏رواه مسلم‏)‏‏)‏‏.‏

reported Whenever it was her turn to spend with Messenger of Allah (ﷺ), he used to go to the Baqi' (graveyard in Al-Madinah) at the last part of night and say, "May you be safe, O abode of the believing people. What you have been promised has come to you. You are tarried till tomorrow and certainly we shall follow you if Allah wills. O Allah, forgive the inmates of the Baqi'-al-Gharqad." [Muslim].

In plain words

Visiting the Baqi graveyard, the Prophet greeted the believers resting there with peace, affirmed that we will follow them, and asked Allah's forgiveness for them.

Reference : Riyad as-Salihin 581 In-book reference : Introduction, Hadith 581

Hadith 582

Buraidah (May Allah be pleased with him) reported:

وعن بريدة رضي الله عنه قال‏:‏ كان النبي صلى الله عليه وسلم يعلمهم إذا خرجوا إلى المقابر أن يقول قائلهم‏:‏ “السلام عليكم أهل الديار من المؤمنين والمسلمين وإنا إن شاء الله بكم للاحقون، أسأل الله لنا ولكم العافية” ‏(‏‏(‏رواه مسلم‏)‏‏)‏‏.‏

The Prophet (ﷺ) used to teach them (i.e., the Companions) whenever they came out to visit the graveyard to say: "As-salamu 'alaikum ahlad-diyyari minal- Mu'minina wal-Muslimina, wa inna in sha' Allahu bikum lahiqun. As 'alul-laha lana wa-lakumul- 'afiyyah (May you be safe, O inmates of the abodes of the believers and the Muslims, and if Allah pleases, we shall follow you, we pray to Allah for well-being for ourselves and for you)." [Muslim].

In plain words

The Prophet taught a greeting for visiting graves: wishing peace on the believers buried there, acknowledging we will join them, and asking Allah for well-being for the living and the dead.

Reference : Riyad as-Salihin 582 In-book reference : Introduction, Hadith 582

Hadith 583

Ibn 'Abbas (May Allah be pleased with them) reported:

وعن ابن عباس رضي الله عنهما، قال مر رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم بقبور بالمدينة فأقبل عليهم بوجهه فقال‏:‏ “السلام عليكم يا أهل القبور، يغفر الله لنا ولكم أنتم سلفنا ونحن بالأثر” ‏(‏‏(‏رواه الترمذي وقال‏:‏ حديث حسن‏)‏‏)‏‏.‏

Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) passed by the graves at Al-Madinah. He turned his face towards them and said, "May you be granted safety, O inmates of the graves. May Allah forgive us and you. You have preceded us, and we are to follow." [At-Tirmidhi, who classified it as Hadith Hasan].

In plain words

Passing the graves, the Prophet greeted those buried there with peace, asked forgiveness for them and for the living, and acknowledged that they have gone ahead and we will follow.

Reference : Riyad as-Salihin 583 In-book reference : Introduction, Hadith 583